RememberMe唱响重温关于逝去的彩色梦

寻梦环游记剧照

秋风阵阵，10.31即将迎来2021年的万圣节，突然的神经错乱，把万圣节和亡灵节搞混了，脑袋里不自觉地回忆起2017年11月皮克斯的经典电影《寻梦环游记》，想起那是一场除了关于梦想，还有关于爱和逝去的教育。

家族去世成员努力帮助米格尔

《Remember Me》的旋律不自觉地响起，记忆又回到那个看电影的午后：热爱音乐的小男孩米格尔却出生在墨西哥一个不喜欢音乐的家庭，亡灵节的时候，悄悄背着家人去参加音乐大赛，却被奶奶强行拦下，愤怒的摔碎了他唯一的吉他，发誓一定要想办法参赛的米格尔机缘巧合之下拿起一把歌神的吉他并踏入了亡灵的世界，偶遇了和落魄乐手埃克托，并和埃克托在神秘的亡灵世界开启了一段奇妙冒险旅程。

到现在仍然还记得那句经典的台词“人生的终点不是死亡，而是被遗忘”，想起落魄的埃克托终于在被人彻底遗忘前，通过米格尔的弹唱让女儿Coco回想起自己是个有爱的老父亲时，仍然会觉得眼眶一热。

我们的文化常常会避讳和孩子谈论死亡，总觉得孩子太小，无法面对这个沉重的话题，然而孩子是需要死亡教育的，因为死亡教育，归根到底是生命的教育，是爱的教育。

就像电影里表达的那样，如果一个亡灵，在尘世有人挂念，在每一年的特定日子，就可以通过那座由万寿菊铺就的桥梁，从亡灵世界回到尘世间看看，回到尘世的家里，感受那份家的温暖和家族延续的力量。

连接亡灵世界和现实世界的万寿菊桥

最早，精神分析流派的心理学大神弗洛伊德提出了生本能和死本能，他认为死本能指向寂灭，只有当生命消亡，一个生命才彻底免除了焦虑。当生命消亡，免除了焦虑，但是消亡之后，意识感知都将不复存在，一切都没有了，自然也会激起人的本能恐惧。特别是在亲子教育中。而很多人害怕死亡，是因为当他们还是一个孩子的时候，成年人传达给他的信息是，死亡是一件很坏、很可怕的事情，是充满晦气的事情。

关于生命消亡，是每个人都必须面对的话题，无从逃避。也许我们无力阻挡时间的流逝，我们也必将与家人与爱人生死相隔。但死并非生的对立面，而是作为生的一部分永存，人类的记忆，便是对灵魂的延续。人生如一场电影，真真假假，虚虚实实，似梦似幻。我们内心安放着那样一个真实的世界，在那里有逝去的亲人，在那里有所有过去的记忆，我们以它真实存在的方式寄托无尽的思念。死亡，并‬不那么可怕，遗忘才是最终的告别，请记住你爱着和爱过的人。

正是因为有失去的时候，更需要用力的过好每一天，认真去做自己想做的事情，实践自己的梦想，像米格尔一样，持续歌唱不停歇。

米格尔热情演唱

最后，再附上一小段Remember Me的歌词，让我们一起重温一下那一份秋日里小温暖，一起面对逝去，一起不放梦想！

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感谢您的阅读，谢谢～

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鐗囧熬鐚涓婂皬娈点奟emember me銆嬩粎渚涙ｈ祻锛

Remember me锛堣疯颁綇鎴戝惂锛

Though i have to say goodbye锛堣櫧鐒舵垜瑕佽村啀瑙佷簡锛

Remember me锛堣颁綇鎴戯級

Dont let it make you cry锛堝笇鏈涗綘鍒鍝娉ｏ級

For even if i m far away锛堝氨绠楁垜杩滆岋級

I hold you in my heart锛堟垜涔熷皢浣犳斁鍦ㄥ績閲岋級

I sing a secret song to you锛堟瘡涓鍒嗗紑鐨勫滄櫄锛

Each night we are apart锛堟垜閮借佸敱涓棣栫樺瘑缁欎綘鍚锛

Remember me锛堣颁綇鎴戯級

Though i have to travel far锛堣櫧鐒舵垜瑕佽繙琛岋級

Remember me锛堣颁綇鎴戯級

Each time you hear a sad guitar锛堟瘡褰撲綘鍚瑙佹偛浼ょ殑鍚変粬澹帮級

Know that i m with you锛堣佺煡閬撴槸鎴戜笌浣犲湪涓璧凤級

The only way that i can be锛堝湪浣犻噸鏂板洖鍒版垜鎬鎶变箣鍓嶏級

Until youre in my arms again锛堥偅鏄鎴戝瓨鍦ㄧ殑鍞涓鏂瑰紡锛

Remember me锛堣颁綇鎴戯級

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閫濆幓鐨勯潚鏄 锛堢編锛夋湕璐圭綏

MY LOST YOUTH 銆by Longfellow
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闈掓槬鐨勯亹鎯虫槸鎮犻暱鐨勯亹鎯炽傗

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闈掓槬鐨勯亹鎯虫槸鎮犻暱鐨勯亹鎯炽傗

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闈掓槬鐨勯亹鎯虫槸鎮犻暱鐨勯亹鎯炽傗
Often I think of the beautiful town
That is seated by the sea;
Often in thought go up and down
The pleasant streets of that dear old town,
And my youth comes back to me.
And a verse of a Lapland song
Is haunting my memory still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I can see the shadowy lines of its trees,
And catch, in sudden gleams,
The sheen of the far-surrounding seas,
And islands that were the Hesperides
Of all my boyish dreams.
And the burden of that old song,
It murmurs and whispers still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I remember the black wharves and slips,
And the sea-tides tossing free;
And Spanish sailors with bearded lips,
And the beauty and mystery of the ships,
And the magic of the sea.
And the voice of that wayward song
Is singing and saying still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I remember the bulwarks by the shore,
And the fort upon the hill;
The sunrise gun, with its hollow roar,
The drum-beat repeated o鈥檈r and o鈥檈r,
And the bugle wild and shrill.
And the music of that old song
Throbs in my memery still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I remember the sea-fight far away,
How it thundered o鈥檈r the tide!
And the dead captains, as they lay
In their graves, o鈥檈rlooking the tranquil bay
Where they in battle died.
And the sound of that mournful song
Goes through me with a thrill:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I can see the breezy dome of groves,
The shadows of Deering鈥檚 Woods;
And the friendships old and the early loves
Comes back with a Sabbath sound, as of doves
In quiet neighborhoods.
And the verse of that sweet old song,
It flutters and murmurs still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

I remember the gleams and glooms that dart
Across the school-boy鈥檚 brain;
The song and the silence in the heart,
That in part are prophecies, and in part
Are longs wild and vain.
And the voice of that fitful song
Sings on, and is never still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

There are things of which I may not speak;
There are dreams that can not die;
There are thoughts that make the strong heart weak,
And bring a pallor into the cheek,
And a mist before the eye.
And the words of that fatal song
Comes over me like a chill:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

Strange to me now are the forms I meet
When I visit the dear old town;
But the native air is pure and sweet,
And the trees that o鈥檈rshadow each well-known street,
As they balance up and down,
Are singing the beautiful song,
Are sighing and whispering still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥

And the Deering鈥檚 Woods are fresh and fair,
And with joy that is almost pain
My heart goes back to wander there,
And among the dreams of the days that were,
I find my lost youth again.
And the strange and beautiful song,
The groves are repeating it still:
鈥淎 boy鈥檚 will is the wind鈥檚 will,
And the thoughts of youth are long, long thoughts.鈥